Secondary education

Your child is in high school. A lot is changing for your teenager and for you too. Your child is getting new subjects, new friends and is getting to know themselves better. That is not always easy.

Maybe your child is insecure, has fear of failure, can't plan well or doesn't want to go to school anymore. Your teenager can also suffer from the home situation, for example due to money problems, psychological problems of someone in the family or due to divorce of parents.

Do you have questions or concerns about your teen? Contact touch with with the neighborhood team in your district or the neighborhood team at school. We are happy to think along with you! 

The neighborhood team helps

Don't wait too long to seek help if your child is reluctant to go to secondary school. The neighbourhood team in your neighbourhood or the neighbourhood team at school can help your teenager with problems related to insecurity, bullying, unhappiness, peer pressure, sexuality, identity, money, unsafe home and addictions such as gaming, alcohol, drugs, smoking, etc. We will also think along with you and the school if your teenager has learning difficulties or behavioural problems. We will draw up a plan and together we will ensure that your child can develop talents and go to school with (more) pleasure. Call, email or visit us!

Frequently asked questions

Your child can often choose from several secondary schools. The most common division is:

Secondary schools can be very different. Read more about this on the website of the central government or in it overview of all Utrecht secondary schools. It is important that your child ends up in a secondary school that is a good fit.  

  • Talk to your teen. Try to find out what is going on and how you can help.
  • Talk to the mentor, care coordinator of the secondary school, Youth Health Care Utrecht and/or the Utrecht VO CollaborationWhat do they notice and how can they help your child?

Isn't that enough? Take touch with with the neighbourhood team in your district. You can contact us with all your questions and concerns.

  • Show interest in your teen. After school, ask how his or her day was.
  • Attend all 10-minute meetings with your child's teachers and ask how your child is doing in class.
  • Keep in touch with your teenager's mentor. They often know your child's school situation well and will be happy to help your child.
  • Give your teenager compliments and increase their self-confidence. 
  • Help your child (if necessary) with planning school, sports and work.
  • Show interest in what your teen has to do for school. Make sure you are aware of important tests and papers and help with planning when needed.
  • Agree with your child when he or she will do homework and study and when he or she will have free time.
  • Make sure your teen goes to bed on time and has their own study space, laptop and paper diary.
  • Make sure your child is not distracted by a cell phone or social media during homework.
  • Does your teen struggle with homework or do you have a lot of arguments about homework and planning? Together with the school or the neighborhood team in your neighborhood, look at how doing homework and studying can cause less stress in the family.   

You can also go here!

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Youth health care

For all questions about young people and secondary school.

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Parents and Education

Information and advice for parents of school-going youth.

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National government

Information about different types of secondary education.

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All ok Support line

Chat and call with a trained volunteer. For young people aged 18 to 25.

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Dutch Youth Institute

National knowledge centre on growing up.

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Join Us

Strengthens the mental health of young people with feelings of loneliness.

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Strong VO

For a continuous educational career for young people in Utrecht in secondary education.

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