Problems in primary school

Your child is in primary school. A lot is coming at him or her. Also at you, by the way, because a child in primary school often develops quickly.

Primary school can be a lot of fun for a child, but sometimes it can also be difficult. Maybe your child is being bullied, is insecure or has a fear of failure. And if things aren't going well at home, things might not be going so well at school for your child either.

You can probably address many of your questions and concerns to your child's school, Youth Health Care Utrecht . Utrecht PO Collaboration. Do you need more or different support? Discuss your questions or concerns with the neighborhood team in your area. We are happy to help you and your child. Contact contact us. 

Neighborhood team assistance at primary school

If your child is not enjoying primary school, this can have various causes. It can be nice if someone watches and thinks along with you and your child. The neighbourhood team in your district can offer help with, for example: bullying, fear of failure, insecurity, learning difficulties and behavioural problems. We would like to talk to you and your child's school. Then we will draw up a plan and work together to let your child go to school with (more) pleasure. Call, email or visit us!

FAQ

  • Talk to your child. Ask him or her what he or she likes and dislikes at school. Try to find out what is going on and how you can help.
  • Talk to your child's teacher. What does she or he see happening with your child and in the classroom?
  • Please contact Youth Health Care Utrecht . Utrecht PO Collaboration.
  • Isn't that enough? Take contact with the neighbourhood team in your district. You can contact us with all your questions and concerns.

It may be that your child's school is not a good fit for your child. It may be too difficult or too easy. Discuss this first with your child's teacher, the school's internal supervisor (IB'er) and/or someone from the Utrecht PO CollaborationTogether you can see whether the school can offer what your child needs or whether you should look for another or special education for your child. 

  • See what your child is good at and tell your child. Show that you have confidence in her or him.
  • Let your child solve small problems by themselves. That gives self-confidence.
  • Let your child be themselves. Tell them that they can be who they want to be. Set a good example yourself and don't judge others.
  • At school all children learn new things. Give your child the space to make mistakes and learn from them.

You can find more tips on the website Parents of today

  • Compliment your child when he or she makes an effort, perseveres, or interacts well with others.  
  • Encourage your child to express feelings and listen carefully. Give your child space and do not judge.
  • Encourage your child to come up with solutions and try them out. This way your child learns to deal with things that don't work (yet!).
  • Teach your child to set clear boundaries ('No, I don't want to do that and I won't do that') and to stick to them.

Is your child struggling with reading and spelling at school and do you suspect they might have dyslexia? First, talk to your child's teacher or the support worker. The school can offer additional exercises and support to help your child further develop their reading and writing skills.

If your child shows little or no progress over a prolonged period, this could indicate severe dyslexia. The school records these suspicions in the student's file and, together with you, may decide to register a child with the Dyslexia Gatekeeper. The Dyslexia Gatekeeper is the gateway to dyslexia support in Utrecht and assesses the school's student file for completeness. For example, it assesses whether the persistence of the problems is clearly described, how the school has provided additional support, and the substantiation of the suspected dyslexia.

If the Dyslexia Gatekeeper shares the suspicion of (severe) dyslexia, you will receive a statement from the gatekeeper with which you can report to one of the contracted providers for further investigation.

Op Gatekeeper Municipality of Utrecht – The ABC Find out more about how support for severe dyslexia is organised in Utrecht.

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